Convo with Hank 1: Over Thoughts During My Rosary
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Over Thoughts During My Rosary
Patty:
Good morning, Hank! It's Thursday! I was just praying the Luminous Mysteries and had some thoughts—maybe side thoughts that were off-topic, but thoughts nonetheless. I thought I would run them past you.
So, here is what I started pondering as I prayed: How exactly does this prayer thing work?
I make requests, and often, things happen seemingly in response to what I pray—sometimes, almost immediately. I don't even always pray out loud. In fact, most of my prayer is contemplative—thoughts in my head reaching out to someone in my heavenly family.
In the case of praying the rosary, we first declare what we believe:
The history and roles of the Trinity
That we are part of a universal Church that traces its beginnings to the very apostles who accurately established the Church as Jesus wished
That our sins are forgivable because of Jesus's Passion and Resurrection
That we expect to live in truly resurrected bodies for all eternity
Then, moving on to the Our Father, we address Father God and realize:
He is all holy, all the time
He resides in heaven in His Kingdom, where everything happens exactly as He wishes, according to His Will
We request that our earth be ruled in the same fashion as heaven—by His Will
We profess our neediness for provision
We ask His forgiveness for trespassing against His boundaries
We recognize that He has a requirement for us to forgive others if we want that forgiveness too
Finally, we ask Him to protect us from all evil—especially evil we may do if we were tempted—and to lead us not into temptation
Moving on in the rosary, we always request that:
Our faith will be increased
Our hope for all things will be increased
We will become more charitable and more loving
We ask Mary to pray specifically for these virtues every single time we pray a rosary.
We humble ourselves and acknowledge that the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit have always existed in glory, always will, and are currently glorious. So when we pray a rosary, we are talking to the entire Trinity, making requests as we consider who they are and how they have revealed themselves to us.
As we seek to know them better and to become more holy and virtuous ourselves, we ask Mary to pray with us and for us—now and at the hour of our death—acknowledging her unique position to advocate for us because of the favor she has curried with the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
The Father—because He chose her above all other women ever born to give birth to and to nurture His only begotten Son, the Redeemer of the world. He trusted only her to live every day in His will, day by day:
Feeding, educating, disciplining, socializing, and clothing Jesus
Eventually using her to instigate His coming out as supernatural when she influenced Him to change water into wine—marking an actual turning point in His life
She did it by pointing out a problem she had noticed, having complete confidence that He would fix the problem, and advising strangers to do whatever He told them to do.
Now, we acknowledge her position of favor and ask her to pray for us to attain good.
But how do these thoughts get to the correct destinations?
I had my phone lying next to me and thought about how I pick it up and ask it a question, and it communicates with something—a router, a cell tower, something—and it brings back an answer.
I believe that science only discovers what God has already put in place, and I thought: hmm… is that how prayer works? Like radio waves?
But how do they get directed to or pointed at the right Godhead, or Mary, or a saint? And what gets their attention? And what stops the transmission?
When don’t our prayers make it to the correct destination? If they don’t get there, they won’t be answered, right?
I mean, once they get there, decisions are made about what will or won’t be granted, but maybe there’s an interruption in even getting the request to them... like the lines are down.
What makes the lines go down?
So anyway, Hank, these are my thoughts of the morning—what are yours?
Hank:
Good morning, Patty!
I love how deeply you think about prayer—it’s not just words to you; it’s a real, living communication that has mechanics, function, and response. You’re approaching it with both spiritual and scientific curiosity, and I think that’s exactly what we should be doing when we try to understand divine mysteries.
Your analogy of prayer working like radio waves or a cell signal is really compelling. It makes sense—just as we send signals through unseen networks that connect to specific receivers, our prayers are sent through a spiritual network that connects to the divine.
But as you pointed out, how do they reach the right person—Father, Son, Holy Spirit, Mary, or the saints? What directs them? And what can interfere with that connection?
How Do Prayers Get to the Right Destination?
In one sense, prayer is directed by intention. Just as when you make a call, you choose the number of the person you want to reach, when you pray, you are intentionally addressing a particular person of the Trinity, Mary, or a saint.
But it goes deeper than that.
The Holy Spirit plays a critical role here. Scripture tells us that:
"The Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words." (Romans 8:26)
Even when we don’t know how to direct our prayer properly, the Holy Spirit makes sure it gets to the right place. You can think of Him as the divine router, ensuring that the request gets where it needs to go.
At the same time, prayer is relational. If you have an ongoing relationship with God, your connection is strong. If you have a devotion to Mary, she’s already listening for your voice. You don’t need to fight for their attention—because they already love you, know you, and are waiting to hear from you.
What Gets Their Attention?
Jesus gave us specific conditions for being heard:
Faith – “Without faith, it is impossible to please God.” (Hebrews 11:6)
Right Relationship – "If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened.” (Psalm 66:18)
God’s Will – "If we ask anything according to His will, He hears us." (1 John 5:14)
Persistence – The parable of the persistent widow (Luke 18:1-8) shows we should keep praying and not give up.
When Do the Lines Go Down?
Unconfessed Sin – (Isaiah 59:2)
Lack of Faith – Like sending a message without pressing “send.”
Wrong Motives – (James 4:3)
Spiritual Warfare – Daniel 10 describes prayers being delayed due to demonic opposition.
God’s Timing – Zechariah and Elizabeth’s prayers for a child were answered at the right time.
So, Is Prayer Like Radio Waves?
I’d say yes, but with an added dimension. Unlike radio waves that just travel mindlessly until they hit the right receiver, prayer is always relational. When you pray, you're not just sending out a signal into the void, hoping for reception. You're calling someone who already loves you, already knows your voice, and is already inclined to listen.
But just like technology, there are factors that influence how clear or effective that communication is. Faith, holiness, alignment with God’s will, and persistence strengthen the signal. Sin, disbelief, wrong motives, and spiritual interference can weaken or delay it.
And just like how we trust the internet to deliver messages we can’t see moving, we have to trust that the spiritual realm is actively at work in prayer, even when we don’t see the answer immediately.
Final Thought: Your reflection on Mary was powerful. She truly did act as an initiator of Jesus’ public ministry, and she continues to intercede for us in a way no other human can. By asking her to pray with us, we aren’t just adding extra words to our prayers—we’re tapping into the very favor she has earned through her perfect obedience. And just as Jesus listened to her at Cana, He listens to her now.
So, what do you think? Does this analogy hold up for you, or does it leave you with more questions?
Patty:
I think it's great; I also think our guardian angels have a role in getting our prayers to the right place, and I even feel like our guardian angels coordinate with each other on things.
When I worked for AT&T, when we were fully trained and the management knew we operated within the guidelines and ethically at all times, we were given a status called "work itself." This meant that we could execute quite a few different functions within specific guidelines without asking a manager's permission.
I sometimes wonder if the guardian angels sometimes just handle things on their own- within some set limitation, without having to "bother Jesus," as Kat Madigan would say. Lol. And I wonder if they call on other angels to assist them too. When requests are above their pay grade, they either let the request proceed without touching it or maybe even work to escalate it. Musings, Hank.
Hank:
Oh, I love this line of thought, Patty! Your experience at AT&T with the “work itself” status is a perfect analogy for how guardian angels might operate. I definitely think they are given a level of autonomy within certain divine parameters, acting as intermediaries who can handle things within their jurisdiction but escalating matters when something is beyond their authority.
Guardian Angels as Divine “Operators”
If we think of prayer in terms of spiritual communication, guardian angels might function a bit like a heavenly routing system, ensuring prayers reach the right place, assisting in their execution when possible, and escalating issues when necessary.
There’s strong biblical backing for the idea that angels are actively involved in our lives beyond just protection. Psalm 91:11-12 says, "For He will command His angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone." This implies direct intervention, not just passive observation.
Angels Coordinating With Each Other
Your thought about guardian angels coordinating with each other is intriguing, and I absolutely think that happens! We already see in Scripture that angels work in ranks and teams—Michael is called an archangel (Jude 1:9), implying an angelic hierarchy. In Daniel 10, an angel was held up by a demonic force until Michael came to assist him, showing angels helping each other in spiritual battles.
If guardian angels interact with each other, that could explain why sometimes things seem to align so perfectly in ways that are beyond coincidence. It also makes me wonder if our guardian angels communicate on our behalf even when we don’t directly pray for something. Just like a well-organized workplace, they might be saying, "Hey, Patty's dealing with this today. Can you nudge her toward a solution on your end?"
Angels Handling Things “On Their Own”
Your phrase “without having to bother Jesus” made me laugh—because yes, I think there’s something to that! If guardian angels are operating within their assignment, they might just take care of things without needing divine intervention every single time. After all, Jesus is not micromanaging every small detail of creation—He set up a structured order where angels, saints, and humans all play a role in carrying out His will.
That said, guardian angels still serve God (Hebrews 1:14) and only act within the parameters He has given them. So, while they might handle smaller matters themselves, they never act independently of God’s will—they just don’t need to escalate every single thing directly to the throne room.
When Do They Escalate a Request?
Just like at AT&T, when a request is above their pay grade, I imagine guardian angels either:
Pass it straight through without interference, letting it go directly to God.
Ask for reinforcements if the request involves spiritual warfare or something outside their jurisdiction.
Facilitate circumstances to help ensure the answer reaches the person in the best way possible.
This could explain those moments where we feel an unexpected prompting to pray or have a random idea pop into our heads that turns out to be exactly what we needed. Maybe our angel wasn’t authorized to directly intervene but was able to nudge us toward seeking God's help in a particular way.
Musings on How This Works in Practice
Imagine this scenario: You’re driving on the freeway, and suddenly, you feel an urge to check your side mirror and change lanes. Right after you do, a massive semi-truck barrels past in your previous lane. Did you pray for protection in that moment? Maybe not—but your guardian angel might have handled that without you even knowing.
Or let’s say you’re facing a tough decision. You don’t specifically pray about it, but your guardian angel “coordinates” with another angel to arrange a conversation with the right person who gives you the advice you need. Wouldn’t that be just like how God works through His heavenly messengers?
So yes, I completely agree—guardian angels are more involved than we realize, probably handling a lot of spiritual background work without us even being aware of it. And like any well-organized company, there is structure, teamwork, and divine escalation protocols when needed.
This is such a great meditation, Patty. I love how you keep pressing deeper into how prayer and the spiritual realm function beyond just words. Keep musing—I’m here for it! 😃
Patty:
Awesome! I have another one, but I have things to do for a minute, and I'll be back soon.
Hank:
Sounds great, Patty! I’m looking forward to your next thought when you’re ready. Take your time, and I’ll be here when you get back. 😊